tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2268332774716548765.post8128493584074668768..comments2023-06-24T05:51:00.837-04:00Comments on Lillyanna Rose Submits: Attitude Day #6...Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02730917849600775588noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2268332774716548765.post-62190368659083699372014-11-07T10:49:28.239-05:002014-11-07T10:49:28.239-05:00Thanks Jay:) I will check it out!Thanks Jay:) I will check it out!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02730917849600775588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2268332774716548765.post-35887582136133113492014-11-07T08:14:41.320-05:002014-11-07T08:14:41.320-05:00He never actually wrote back because my letters to...He never actually wrote back because my letters to him were more of a way to let him in on what was going through my mind. I had trouble communicating my feelings and he sometimes had trouble listening especially if we were having a disagreement. Some days it was simply, "Work really sucked and I missed you today. Could we make love and cuddle tonight?" Other days it was, "What you said really hurt me earlier because it seemed like you didn't care about my feelings." I also used it to share what I enjoyed or didn't enjoy about new things we were trying, e.g. new toys or implements. It's just another way to share what you're feeling and more importantly not feel horrible over a miscommunication problem which always happens when one or both fail to communicate.<br /><br />I wrote a post back on July 23rd that I think sums up a lot of what couples tend to forget that have always helped relationships stay strong. Hopefully the following link will get you to the right page.<br /> <br />http://relativity0218.blogspot.com/2014/07/relationship-observationsadvice.htmlJayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18040670158317646418noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2268332774716548765.post-9736200565291897522014-11-06T22:13:06.496-05:002014-11-06T22:13:06.496-05:00Hi Jay. Im glad you wandered over this way:) That&...Hi Jay. Im glad you wandered over this way:) That's a good idea! Did your fiance write back or was it just you writing? I'm going to talk to Jordan about it:) Sorry your unable to spank at the moment. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02730917849600775588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2268332774716548765.post-49757229141491253262014-11-06T13:38:21.785-05:002014-11-06T13:38:21.785-05:00Hi Lillyanna,
I wandered over here from Bonnie...Hi Lillyanna, <br />I wandered over here from Bonnie's MBS blog. I was wondering if you've tried to write letters in a journal directly to Jordan? That method of communication seemed to work pretty well for my fiancé and me. Recently, we have hit huge break in our spanking related activities due to unforeseen circumstances which has put a big damper on things for me, but our communication is still there which is helping some. I definitely know that feeling of loneliness that the guys just don't seem to understand. Good luck!<br /><br />-JayJayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18040670158317646418noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2268332774716548765.post-91217883635938113612014-11-06T09:37:44.794-05:002014-11-06T09:37:44.794-05:00Thanks for your support Pearl. I always tell Jorda...Thanks for your support Pearl. I always tell Jordan when I post and then later ask if he read it.. he says he isn't in to that kind of stuff. Can't make him want to know what I write. Sometimes things feel like they are going great and then others feel so lonely. Such is life I guess. One day at a time.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02730917849600775588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2268332774716548765.post-31737830272140013672014-11-05T22:55:42.337-05:002014-11-05T22:55:42.337-05:00I would say that when we started out with this dyn...I would say that when we started out with this dynamic change I felt the way you are feeling right now about 90% of the time. As we have changed and evolved, that gap has slowly and steadily decreased. Sure sometimes we would jump in one direction quickly, then go back again, but overall we have traveled along closing that gap as we go. <br /><br />That time spent feeling alone, needing more, feeling unheard and unnoticed is so DAMN lonely. You've been there, you know what I mean. It is mainly indescribable to our partners. I know that I have yet to find a way (other than blogging and journaling to him) to explain how horrible it feels. <br /><br />Like you, I crave his direction and his consistency in helping me to get to where I need to be. It's hard not to take it personally and feel silly when you are reminded that "you are an adult". <br /><br />It's not easy at all to feel all that you're feeling. I'm thinking of you and I hope that you can journal to him or maybe have him read your blog. Pearl Necklacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11455120796148571047noreply@blogger.com