After my last post I spoke with Jordan about my desire to start maintenance spankings in addition to our normal punishment spankings.
We discussed it for a while and Jordan stood firm that he was not interested in maintenance.
His reasoning is what we are doing is working well.
He is concerned that maintenance will get me “used” to spankings and punishments won’t be as effective.
Last but not least. Discipline is serious. Pleasure is play. Play is erotic.
So while I still don’t like punishment spankings we are experimenting more with erotic spankings and adding some D/s play into it.
I can’t complain… Actually… it has been pretty amazing.