The following are the 4 D's of Domestic Discipline as outlined in Jordan and I's DD contract.
Disrespect: No back-talking, bad attitude, eye rolling, sassiness or other forms of disrespect. Do what you are told when you are told without arguing or sassiness. Do not become short or inpatient with HOH or children. No raising your voice. No inattentiveness to HOH while he is talking. No walking away when being spoken too. Communicate effectively, and respectfully. Never go to bed angry. Do not ignore or distance yourself. Do not say “whatever” to HOH ever.
Dishonesty: No LYING or any form of dishonest communication or behavior. No withholding information from HOH.
Do the 4 D's of domestic discipline play a role in your DD or TTWD arrangement? What is your or your HOH's most important rule, the one you really really don't want to have to be punished or punish for?
For me that rule would have to be disrespect. I actually am pretty good about following the rest of our rules. For some reason I have the hardest time with talking back, eye rolling, walking away from Jordan while he is speaking to me ect. That's what I get punished for the most :/